Advise.

Do you ever find it super hard to take one's own advise? Maybe advise is our form of our emotions telling us what we should do, but of course we don't do.

I never understand why people go back to bad things, why they don't run from bad situations but maybe it's because although they are abuse or taken advantage of they have already feel a sense of security.

No that doesn't make sense to me either, but it's something I really want to look into. It reminds of how abused women do not run away, but it's that fear that you have nothing else.

So is it bad to give advise you yourself can not take?

Is it bad to do what your heart tells you even though it may break relationships and that sense of security you have?

Questions are hard to answer; you need advise.